A GRIEVERY MEMBERSHIP
Relational grief care, that’s ongoing.
Membership means belonging to a community that keeps showing up for grief that doesn't resolve on a timeline and for the people tending it together.
A steady space to return to each month. Show up as often as grief asks, and receive meaningful savings on workshops and trainings throughout the year.
You belong, regardless of what any given month brings. The gathering is always there. And so are we!
WHO THIS IS FOR
Grief shows up differently for each of us — sometimes urgent and raw, sometimes quiet and long-held, sometimes just a low hum beneath an ordinary day. Wherever you are with it, you deserve a place that doesn't ask you to earn your seat.
Membership is for anyone who wants a steady community, without having to re-explain yourself or wonder whether this is the right time. For those in the thick of loss, and for those who understand that tending grief is an ongoing practice, not just a response to emergency. For as long as grief asks.
And yes — animal companions are welcome too.
WHAT’S INCLUDED IN EVERY MEMBERSHIP
Access to monthly grief gatherings plus discounts on all workshops and trainings.
Queer Grief Gathering
1st of every month.
General Grief Gathering
15th of every month.
Ritual Grief Gathering
4th Sunday of every month.
Discounts
15% off all workshops and trainings.
Choose a membership level
MONTH-TO-MONTH
$25
per month
Access to all monthly grief gatherings, plus discounts to all workshops and trainings.
ANNUAL
$200
per year · two months free
Full year of access to grief gatherings and discounts. One upfront payment, two months free.
BEST VALUE
ANNUAL + PRIVATE SESSIONS
$500
per year
Access to all monthly grief gatherings, plus two 60-minute 1:1 sessions with Rebecca.
A note on our Gatherings
This work is therapeutic, but it isn't therapy. We're not clinicians. We are experienced grief guides offering community, ritual, and relational care. Membership here is a complement to other support you may have, not a replacement for it.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Questions, answered plainly.
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Membership gives you access to all three of our monthly grief gatherings — the Witnessed Grief Gathering (15th), the Queer Grief Gathering (1st), and the Ritual Grief Gathering (fourth Sunday) — on consistent dates each month. Additionally all members get discounted access to our workshops.
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Month-to-month: $25/month · cancel anytime.
Annual: $200/year · two months free.
Annual + 1:1: $500/year · two 60-minute sessions with Rebecca included.
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Yes. Members receive discounts on all workshops and trainings
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Yes, month-to-month memberships renew automatically each month. Annual memberships renew at the end of the year. You can cancel anytime via the Acuity scheduling system or by contacting us at community@thegrievery.com.
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Each gathering is 60 minutes, held online via Zoom. We open with a gentle grounding practice, move through sharing and listening, and some reflective writing. We close with a poem and small ritual practice. Cameras and sharing are always optional. Nothing is required of you except your presence.
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Yes — all three are included in every membership tier. The General Grief Gathering, Queer Grief Gathering, and Ritual Grief Gathering are each open to members, and you can schedule to attend any or all each month. Please note: The Queer Grief Gathering is held specifically for 2SLGBTQIA+ folks; all others are welcome at the General and Ritual gatherings.
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We believe grief needs a container. When the same people return month after month, something shifts — the room holds more, trust deepens, and the quality of what's possible together changes. Membership isn't about exclusivity; it's about building the kind of steady, recurring community that grief actually asks for.
We tried a drop-in model, but ultimately noticed that it created friction at exactly the wrong moment. Our hope is that a membership model removes that friction. The gathering is always there.
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