Some updates
Three years ago, I started The Grievery with a simple question: how do we honor each other's humanity in the face of loss?
What we knew then and know more deeply now, is that grief is vast. It lives not only in the aftermath of death, but also in the dissolution of relationships, in the loss of what we imagined our lives to be, in the weight of a world in constant upheaval.
What has come into focus, through three years of gathering, witnessing, and being witnessed, is just how much lives in the in-between. The space after something has ended, while we linger in the uncertainty and mystery of what's to come. That disorienting, often sacred ground that most of us were never really taught how to navigate or inhabit — liminal space. And it's where The Grievery has always been doing its work.
This came into even more focus after I ran a birth chart for our business. We do this for ourselves, so why not look at the founding impulse beyond our stated intention. What it revealed felt profoundly aligned: the energy present at our beginning is precisely the energy the world needs right now. The Grievery was built to live and work in the space of meaning-making, teaching, and guidance through liminal experience: themes of death, grief, and transformation. To expand perspectives, bridge divides, and provide structure for journeys that don't otherwise have a map. We, like you, were made for this moment.
That is part of what inspired this refresh. It feels like it’s time to step toward that with more warmth and clarity.
What has changed, most visibly, is our website. We've rebuilt it to better reflect the full breadth of what we're tending together, and to make it easier for you to find your place in it. This is where we are now, and we're glad to finally have a home that says so clearly.
What hasn't changed is the promise underneath all of it — to tend to life’s thresholds, together. To keep showing up. To keep slowing down as everything around us seems to speed up. To believe that when we meet one another with vulnerability and courage in the midst of loss, there is strength in that meeting.
Here's what's new:
The Grievery Membership — New
Tending grief isn't a one-time event. It's a sustained practice, returned to over time. To honor that, we are moving from single-session sign-ups to a membership model. This is a dedicated, consistent place for those who wish to tend grief alongside familiar faces.
Membership anchors you in rhythm and repetition, with access to all monthly gatherings on fixed dates, plus discounts as you deepen and integrate your practice through workshops and trainings.
Explore our gatherings → or Explore membership options →
The Grief Archetypes Quiz — Updated
Grief takes many shapes, and it can be difficult to name what's moving through you. Our updated Grief Archetypes quiz helps you explore the ways sorrow and transition live in your own psyche and body. You’ll find a newly added Archetype, journaling prompts and a small somatic practice alongside clearer pathways back to the Grievery - helpful for those who are new to us.
Take the free quiz →
Gift Cards — New
Sometimes the most meaningful thing you can offer someone in the thick of loss is a soft place to land. Gift cards are now available, allowing your loved ones to choose how and when to engage, on their own timing and in their own way. Purchase a Gift Card or Learn more →
Clearer paths for support
We've reorganized our offerings so you can more easily find the level of holding you need: from the community warmth of monthly Grief Gatherings, to intimate 1-on-1 Support across three tailored tracks, to immersive Workshops and Trainingsfor those ready to go deeper, or to hold this work for others.
Whatever shape your loss takes, however it arrived, however long it has been traveling with you, you are welcome here.
With care and presence,
Rebecca
The Grievery Founder
Death Doula & Liminal Guide
UPCOMING OFFERINGS
Gates of Grief — 8-week workshop
An exploration of thesix gates through which grief enters our lives, from the personal to the planetary. We will move through Francis Weller’s five foundational gates, plus a sixth gate dedicated to reckoning with the harms we have carried or caused.Starting September 27, 2026.
Learn more and Register →
Grief Guide Training — New dates
Our deepest path of study for those ready to hold this work for others. This twelve-week journey alternates between self-paced modules and live practice sessions, culminating in a personal capstone.Starting January 10, 2027.
Learn more and Register →
If you are looking for something specific or simply want to share what is moving through you as you explore the new space, we would love to hear from you.
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